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drtre1987 Message Board Junkie
Joined: 07 Nov 2006 Posts: 2128
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 6:59 pm Post subject: Why do players talk crap? |
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I just don't get it at all. I mean there was this terrible player at the table who called with a 7 high and no draw on the flop and hit a pair on the river. Then, his opponent started typing a bunch of crap about how he plays like a 2 yr old. All he ended up doing was making that player play better against the rest of the table. Hell, if he wants to call me w/ 7 high, then im happy to let him do it.
Then, later, I got caught bluffing against another player (who was tight passive and was capable of making a fold) and then the bad player from earlier started talking crap about my bluff. I didnt tell him about how it was a semi bluff that reduced the multi way pot to head ups and showed where i was in the hand.
and just now at my sng, a player was complaing that someone played a 73offsuit (in the big blind with a check)
dumb ppl indeed |
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JaneTheHot High Card
Joined: 13 Oct 2006 Posts: 8 Location: Brookly NY
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 7:48 pm Post subject: |
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| First of all, great comment. It is true that many players talk crap. I always welcome those players in my games, since they only bring easy money. Most of the time those players will be loose-aggresive, which means I can play passive and they will pay me off and when I check-raise them on the river, they will be force to pay. On other hand, some players talk crap when they are losing. Either way, you will only profit. |
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CitizenCain Message Board Junkie
Joined: 23 Oct 2006 Posts: 2022 Location: Behind a huge stack of chips.
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 8:28 pm Post subject: Re: Why do players talk crap? |
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| drtre1987 wrote: |
| I just don't get it at all. |
I can help you get it.
How about I... give you a mild electrical shock in the back of the neck every 3 minutes or so, for the next... 17 weeks?
Think you might get angry... or lose your temper.. or blurt out something mean at me?
Think someone might (gasp) lose their temper and do the same thing when they lose a bunch of money to some moron?
Yeah. There you have it. Simple human emotions, explained in easy to understand sentences.  |
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dumwaldo Message Board Junkie
Joined: 23 May 2006 Posts: 1656 Location: look to the stars
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 8:37 pm Post subject: Re: Why do players talk crap? |
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| CitizenCain wrote: |
Yeah. There you have it. Simple human emotions, explained in easy to understand sentences.  |
Allowing your emotions to get the best of you is a sure way to lose money in poker. |
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Spigwish Message Board Junkie
Joined: 09 Jul 2006 Posts: 1140 Location: Ottawa, Ontario
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 9:33 pm Post subject: |
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Well said Dumwaldo. Cain usually has insightful comments, and I don't care for his bashing of new posters. Losing a hand when you think you have it in the bag is very aggravating, but "losing it" will only cause to play stupidly and lose money.
There is such a thing as common courtesy and etiquette, and too often it is sadly missing at the tables. Playing online, it is easy to think that you are playing in isolation, and that you can toss your inhibitions out the window, as well as all the manners your mother ever tried to teach you.
When confronted with a jerk at the tables, just turn off the player chat and remember this ... Don't let an a$$h@1e ruin your day.
Cheers |
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NOLEMIKE93 Full House
Joined: 19 Oct 2006 Posts: 165 Location: Tallahassee,Florida
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 11:23 pm Post subject: |
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| When did a game that used to be played in dark seedy backrooms become a gentlemans game? |
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CitizenCain Message Board Junkie
Joined: 23 Oct 2006 Posts: 2022 Location: Behind a huge stack of chips.
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 11:42 pm Post subject: Re: Why do players talk crap? |
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| dumwaldo wrote: |
| Allowing your emotions to get the best of you is a sure way to lose money in poker. |
Indeed. But the OP didn't ask that - he asked why people do it.
Uh, duh, because when people get mad, they lose their tempers?
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| When did a game that used to be played in dark seedy backrooms become a gentlemans game? |
Around the same time it started being the latest big fad, I think.
Spot on, though. You'd think people wouldn't expect so much courtesy in a game that's a cut throat competition to take all the other guy's money... which used to involve actually cutting people's throats (or shooting them) from time to time.  |
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griffinlord Message Board Junkie
Joined: 19 Jul 2005 Posts: 2459 Location: The Great Plains of South Dakota
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 12:24 am Post subject: |
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I think the "gentleman's game" thing came about when pro's started to realize that treating the fish well and keeping them happy was profitable.
Back to the OP...two reasons:
1) emotion--usually coupled with a lack of experience and an inflated sense of accomplishment/knowledge. Half the time (or more) the trash talker shows a fair amount of ignorance as they display their "brilliant" poker knowledge.
Usually, but not always a lack of experience. Too many suck outs in a row and I start to get a bit cranky. But I never, ever tell off the donkey. I want my money back. If not now, then some day and if I abuse him he may take my money and go home never to play with me again.
2) some genuinely believe that tilting their opponent with trash talk is a great way to make more money. And in the short-run they might actually be right. But in the long-run they are idiots. |
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Jobe Gilchrist Message Board Junkie
Joined: 09 Apr 2006 Posts: 3446 Location: "the most commonly-uttered phrase by vampire bats is 'it's not as cool as it sounds'"
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 12:29 am Post subject: |
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You're all superheroes. Seriously.
"If I talk trash to somebody they might remember it months later because I'm this amazingly unique member of the astral plane and they'll feel my soul's vibration and never give me any more money." Jesus, get over yourselves. As long as you don't go completely ridiculous, you can say plenty of things to the average player and it won't have any effect on anything. Trying to create context and nuance in online poker doesn't make it automatically appear.
Yes, you want to give 110% at the tables, and take it one hand at a time. Blah blah blah, isn't there a D-I coaching job for you somewhere? |
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fire_eyes_2k The Burn Card
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 3469 Location: London
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 1:03 am Post subject: |
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Whenever I see someone trash talking in a tourney, I automatically look them up on pokerdb to see what I'm up against. I can guarantee that they will be either very good or very bad, and it's very rare for them to be in between.
The worst keyboard bashing I ever took was from a player who currently has 35k winnings from over 200 cashes and 19 final tables. After checking up on him I was curious as to why he was acting like a moron, it's not like he had anything to prove! But I got back on with the tourney, and tightened up my play against him, but I was doing the opposite to everyone else. Most players turned into calling stations against him as they thought he was on tilt and deadmoney. They were wrong.
A bit later in that tournament that player and I were reunited at a different table and I asked if he was still mad at me. He said he never had been mad at me but had found that looking like a maniac made the table loosen up and play worse against him.
So thats my story of the day about trash talkers. |
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ridic x Straight Flush
Joined: 03 Nov 2006 Posts: 485 Location: At your tables stealin your moneyz
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| Take into consideration there are a great number of young players who have yet to mature. There are many players under 18 and even more 18-25. Most are brash and have no real concept of the game past seeing it on TV. I think we all went through the "berating" people faze and when we decided to take a real interest in the game found berating to be -EV. I have although used table talk live to massively tilt a weaker player, works especially well if they just suffered a suckout of sorts. |
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Wolfear High Card
Joined: 11 Nov 2006 Posts: 12 Location: Texas
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 2:56 am Post subject: |
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"If I talk trash to somebody they might remember it months later because I'm this amazingly unique member of the astral plane and they'll feel my soul's vibration and never give me any more money." Jesus, get over yourselves. As long as you don't go completely ridiculous, you can say plenty of things to the average player and it won't have any effect on anything.
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It might surprise you that some people actually do make use of player notes..so yes..months down the road, someone who is regularly rude, vulgar and generally unpleasant to play will be remembered.
There are plenty of things I see said to "average players" online which, had we been in the "dark seedy backroom" would have resulted in the loss of more than chips.
Even (or should I say especially) in the "dark seedy backroom", exhibiting the sort of behavior shown by some players now would have gotten very ugly very quickly. It was (and should still be) a (sort of) "gentleman's game" because not being so would have resulted in some very clogged gutters.
Not saying it was always friendly, but at least there was an etiquette that was expected.
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| Take into consideration there are a great number of young players who have yet to mature. There are many players under 18 and even more 18-25. Most are brash and have no real concept of the game past seeing it on TV. |
I think you hit on it right there, although, regardless of age, even on TV you rarely see the sort of verbal abuse which is regularly dished out online. True..trash talk is a part of the game and even more so IRL than online, but who, at ANY poker table, would stand to be repeatedly called (and I quote from an SNG game a few days ago) a "stupid cu**".
Whether a player is good or bad is not the point.
Who in their right minds would defend this sort of behavior? |
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dumwaldo Message Board Junkie
Joined: 23 May 2006 Posts: 1656 Location: look to the stars
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 5:05 am Post subject: |
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| NOLEMIKE93 wrote: |
| When did a game that used to be played in dark seedy backrooms become a gentlemans game? |
You have it backwards. When the game was played in seedy back rooms people had courtesy because if they didn't use some manners with others you could wind up dead.
It stopped being a gentleman's game when the internet introduced snot nosed cyber punks with no respect for anybody or anything. They could insult others on the internet with impunity and the few times these players would come out to a live game it would be in well regulated casinos where any potential punishments would be mild. Certainly not the type of punishment that would find you in a hospital.
it was coming out of those seedy back rooms that took the manners and courtesy out of the game. |
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